Today was a tough day at work for me. Thank goodness it was a short day and I got to leave at 3:00, I needed to get away!
I called 9-1-1 today. I am not going to say that I had to and now that I go over and over the scenario in my head I really wish I would not have. Not because I got in trouble or anything but, because I really believe that I could have dealt with the situation SO much better.
Without further adieu here is what happened:
Captain T was in his office with the door shut talking to a relatively insane lady. My coworker and I were in my office counting money when this gentlemen comes in. Now, we know this guy...he has come in before and the only way I know how to explain it is that he gives off a really creepy vibe. He is homeless although you would never be able to tell because he keeps himself very clean and presentable. Previous employees have warned me about him as he tends to come in and sit in the lobby of the Corps. and stare at you through the window making you very uncomfortable.
So, anyway he comes in and asks if he can use the bathroom. If it was just me he was asking I would have let him use the bathroom without issue. I tend to do whatever I can to appease someone just long enough for them to get what they want and hopefully get out. But, my coworker decided to implement the lose policy we have about not allowing the public to use our restrooms. We have had issues with people using the bathrooms and vandalizing etc. Needless to say he did not take this information well and proceeded to become angry. He said that he goes to church here sometimes, which he does, and that he has talked to Capt. T, which he has and why is it that we cannot allow him to use the bathroom? He then asked to speak to Capt. T very upset that we were not allowing him the access he felt that he was entitled to. We told him that Capt. T was in a meeting right now and that if he wanted to talk to him he would have to wait for him. He was more than willing to wait for him while standing in the middle of my office door way disgusted by our bathroom policy. Of course he had time to wait, what else was he going to do?
I asked him if he would like to have a seat in the lobby and wait for Capt. T but he responded that he would rather stand in the doorway. My coworker then told him that we were counting money and that he really did need to go and wait in the lobby for security purposes. He did so begrudgingly and then proceeded to intimidate me by staring at me through the window while making faces. I stared back, not backing down! He was very belligerent and angry and I was pissed and a little scared. I looked at my coworker and said I think I am going to call the police. She agreed and I dialed. I did tell him I was going to call the police and he LOVED that! The police came escorted him away and that was that.
What I am having a problem with is this guy was really intelligent. Almost like one of those people that is SO smart that he cannot have a 'normal' life. He was saying, while waiting for the police, if calling the police is something Jesus would have done. I thought about this and thought that there might have been a few occasions that if the 9-1-1 option was there, Jesus might have called! Needless to say I had to question whether calling the police was necessary and would Jesus have called the police. He called my Christianity into question and thought that I should be fired because what kind of Christan calls the police on someone who wants to use the bathroom?
So, I have been wrestling all day about it and feeling bad and convicted. That is why I am working at the Salvation Army to reach out to people just like him and what do I do to minister...call the police and have him escorted off the property. What a dummy I am!
Friday, August 22, 2008
Salvation Army Adventures Part 1
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Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Doing the Most Good
Most of the people at work take issue with the slogan of The Salvation Army, "Doing the Most Good." They don't like it and think that it sounds pretentious. What are your thoughts of the slogan?
Posted by Hillary at 7:17 PM 1 comments
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
My New Mantra
Preach The Gospel At All Times And, If Necessary, Use Words
Posted by Hillary at 4:46 PM 1 comments
Friday, June 27, 2008
The Paradoxical Commandments
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Sunday, June 15, 2008
3 Books I am EXCITED to Read
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Tuesday, June 3, 2008
MUD RUN!!
My trainer told me about this race and it sounds SO much fun! It is such a popular race that they have three races that take place on three consecutive days and all of them for this year are sold out! I will be doing this next year...do I have any takers to do it with me!? It is in San Diego so if nothing else we would have a great time in a sunny local.
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Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Adoption Tales
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Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Board Meeting
My first official board meeting was a success! It was not as 'bad' as I thought it would be and dare I say it was actually FUN. I'm so proud of our little church...we have great visions and goals that focus on meeting peoples' needs in our community and beyond. I love the discussion of how we can be of service to others and even more so I love being apart of a church in which that is the main priority.
- Free Medical Clinic
- Emergency Foster Care Facility
- Sick Child Care Facility (I just added this one, my Dad's suggestion)
- Non-Profit office space rentals
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Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Emergent Book Club
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Sunday, May 11, 2008
15 Things I Love About My Mom
Happy Mother's Day Mom!! I love you so much!
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Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Socially Responsible Investing
I have been reading some books on investing lately...I would like to 'retire' at some point! During my research I was so happy to come across the Corporate Responsibility Officer. This website lists the 100 best companies that combine business objectives with responsible practices across eight categories: environment, climate change, human rights, employee relations, corporate governance, lobbying, philanthropy and financial performance. I have included the top 10 companies listed on the CRO website:
- Intel
- Eaton Corp.
- Nike Inc.
- Deere & Co.
- Genentech Inc.
- Corning Inc.
- Humana Inc.
- Bank of America Corp.
- ITT Corp.
- PG&E Corp.
Posted by Hillary at 7:26 PM 1 comments
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Good News Garage
Talk about ushering in the Kingdom of God on Earth! Love this idea!
Posted by Hillary at 9:33 AM 2 comments
Friday, May 2, 2008
Question
Can you name your church practices that were once infused with life and purpose but today have no intrinsic relationship to faith, are devoid of meaning, and separate you from your mission?
Posted by Hillary at 10:47 PM 7 comments
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Dreams, Hopes & Hesitations
I have a dream, a very lofty dream but a dream all the same. I have confessed this goal of mine to a few people and now I am putting it out there for the multitudes...possibly as a way to keep me accountable and also as a way to get information about what the heck I am getting into, in case anyone might know.
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Friday, April 25, 2008
Atheist
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Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Happy Earth Day
In honor of Earth Day I have come up with a list, with some help from Bree, of 10 things we can do today to help our planet! So, lets get started!!!
1. Paper or Plastic? Neither!! Get in the habit of taking reusable bags to the grocery store. I keep several in my car just so I do not forget. Saves the trees and the landfills plus some stores, Whole Foods, actually gives you a credit for using reusable bags. It's a win, win!!
2. Replace regular light bulbs with the energy efficient variety. It costs more to purchase but you will get a good return in the long run. They last longer and obviously use less energy therefore making your energy bill lower. Another win, win!
3. Don't buy any more bottled water! Instead start using reusable water bottles as well as reusable coffee mugs.
4. Switch cleaning products to ones that are Earth friendly. You can even make your own cleaning products with water, vinegar and baking soda. I have not done that yet but it seems like a good plan!
5. Compost! To learn how to compost visit www.howtocompost.org
6. Stop the insane amount of junk mail!! You can sign up to stop junk mail at www.dmachoice.org/mps
7. Clean the lint traps in your dryer after every load. Your dryer uses an insane amount of energy as is so, by reducing the lint we can reduce some energy consumption. If Earth friendliness doesn't get you maybe this will, a linty dryer filter is a fire hazard! Yes, I am the wife of a firefighter!
8. Use rain bins to water plants and grass. This was Bree's suggestion and a great one at that! Simply have your down spout empty into some bins to collect that water and save for later.
9. Support local growers and buy fruits and vegatables that were produced locally. Saves the cost in transport plus, it is way better than fruit and vegetables picked prior to becoming ripe. Yes, a win, win!!
10. Switch your shower heads to a 'low flow' type. Save water ladies when you take that 20 min. shower!
Just in the span of about 1 hour this list was created...but the ramifications of putting this list into action will last a lifetime!! Does anyone else have suggestions?
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Monday, April 21, 2008
Here We Go
All right! I am trying this whole thing again...hopefully I will be more diligent with it this time. Maybe I need some help from my blogging friends to keep me accountable. I now have to think of some 'smart' stuff to say. Expect the next post soon!
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